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🔍Looking for SomeonePosted on May 12

Missed connection Coffee shop on Valencia — we smiled at each other

Every Wednesday morning for the past month, we've been at the same coffee shop on Valencia Street. You always order an oat milk latte. I'm the one with the sketchbook. Last week you smiled at me and I nearly dropped my cup.

San Francisco·2026-05-10
#coffee#valencia street#wednesday
The Sketchbook Person
🙏Thank YouPosted on May 11

To the barista who remembered my order

Every morning for three months, you had my oat milk latte ready before I even ordered. When I moved neighborhoods, I never got to say a proper goodbye. You made my mornings brighter.

San Francisco·Over three months
Morning Regular
💛Kind StrangerPosted on May 10

You let me pet your cat in the park

You were in Dolores Park with the friendliest orange tabby on a leash. I was having the worst day and you could tell. You said his name was Mango and let me sit with him for twenty minutes. It helped more than you know.

San Francisco·Last Saturday
Cat Therapy Patient
💛Kind StrangerPosted on May 2

You sang to your baby on the bus

On the 38 Geary bus you were softly singing a lullaby in what I think was Tagalog to your baby. The whole bus was quietly listening. It was the most peaceful moment I've experienced in this city.

San Francisco·Monday evening
Bus Passenger

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